Thursday, March 5, 2015

6 Things To Know Before Your First Time Doing White Tantric Yoga

By Kyla Rose Maher

Chances are that if you’re reading this, you’ve already heard some things about White Tantric and maybe even been intrigued enough to sign up. I won’t go into what White Tantric is, or how it works, because you can find that info at the source at www.whitetantricyoga.com.  Instead, here are 6 things to know, that you might not be able to find on that website, based on my experiences along with that of many other Kundalini veterans.

1. Dress Appropriately: OK, I think we all know that you’ve got to wear white and cover your head. (ahem, I know an AWESOME company that you can find the highest quality kundalini threads. Just sayin’.) But what many people often don’t think of when picking out an outfit for White Tantric day - is to wear layers. You never know what the temperature is going to be in the facility (or outside if you are attending Summer or Winter Solstice) and you never know what kind of energy releases you might experience. I also suggest reading “3 Tips For Wearing White Yoga Pants”. 

2. Don’t Sweat The Partner Thing: I would bet the #1 thing that people get nervous about doing White Tantric is finding a partner. If you have somehow convinced your non-yogi significant other to join you, first, please e-mail me and tell me how the heck you did that, and second, have them read the rest of this article. For the rest of you, I promise, finding a partner is no big deal. Usually a facilitator will announce over a microphone, "if you don’t have a partner, raise your hand." Then you just make eye-contact with someone, sit down, and you’re good to go. You usually get exactly who you are supposed to be with. And if you’re not up for trusting the Universe (that’s fine, baby steps), my advice would be, when the facilitator tells people with no partner to raise their hands, you could keep your hand down, look around the room to see who has their hand up, and once you see a friendly face (although I’m telling you, yogis are all friendly), you could go up and ask them to be your partner. Easy-peasy. 

3. Bring Snacks: THIS IS NOT 3HO APPROVED. So be discreet. And make sure you sit near me so I can have some of whatever you bring. 

4. Make Yourself Comfortable: Bring a cushion to sit on, maybe 2. You’re going to be sitting all day, so you want to be comfy. Another great tip: neck pillows or rolled hand towels for your knees.

5. Packing: Here are some random things you might want to bring with you: lotion, lip balm, tissues, eye drops, joint rub. But also know, you are staying for a day, not a week! At most White Tantric courses you’ll be instructed to keep the rows very clear, which means getting your stuff out of the way. Yogi Bhajan said, Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light.”

6. Express Gratitude: There is a ton of work that goes into the tantric undertaking to give you an experience of a lifetime.  Be sure to say thank you to the organizer, facilitator, monitors, and all the volunteers. It means a lot! 




 About the author: Kyla Rose Maher, creator & owner of Long Time Sun Apparel  is a KRI Certified Instructor of Kundalini Yoga as taught by Yogi Bhajan® and is certified in SuperHealth, a yogic therapeutic technology for addictive behavior.  She has had the privilege of studying under many master teachers including Hari Kaur KhalsaMukta Kaur Khalsa, and Mahan Rishi Singh Khalsa.  Aside from running Long Time Sun Apparel, Kyla has been a contributing writer for the Spirit Voyage Blog and the Kundalini Yoga Boston Blog. She spent the summers of 2012-2013 teaching at the Ponderosa Tazland Festival in Germany and is currently enjoying spreading the teachings of Yogi Bhajan throughout New England along with having a blast growing with Long Time Sun Apparel.

Tuesday, February 17, 2015

3 Ways to Stay Motivated to Meditate


By Kyla Rose Maher
In the Kundalini Yoga world, it’s all about sadhana, or daily spiritual practice.  When I first started practicing, the routine of waking up at 3AM, jumping in the cold shower, and doing 2 hours of yoga and meditation really was exciting for the first few months. I’m not kidding, it really was exciting.  That pink cloud didn’t last too long before the sleepy voice in my head that says “just 5 more minutes” began to get louder and louder.  Before I knew it the ambrosial hours turned into ambrosial-ish hours, and then ambrosial-ish turned into ambrosial-…later.  And then, 2 hours of meditation somehow transformed into 5 minutes of chanting Waheguru in my head - yes, while still cuddled up under the covers in bed.  
What I’ve discovered over time, is that all of that is OK.  My meditation practice goes through an ebb and flow, just like life does.  I know I feel my best when I’m waking up before the sunrise to connect with my higher self, but sometimes it’s just so damn hard.  I need motivation, inspiration, and lots of guidance. Always.  Here are three ways I stay motivated to do what I know works.
1. Create a sacred space.  
I just moved into a new apartment and a priority of mine was to make my meditation space look and feel beautiful.  I created an alter with this cool antique table and filled it with sentimental objects and pictures.  In the morning before my practice, I put on relaxing meditation music and light candles and incense.  It’s so cozy even my friends who don’t meditate feel the urge to sit on my cushion when they come over to visit!
2. Seek out some inspiration.
When I fall out of my meditation practice, I know I need to be reminded of why I love to do it and why it’s so important in my life. I need inspiration!  I’ve found it very helpful to sign up for a workshop, a yoga series with a favorite teacher, or even just travel to take a class somewhere new.  Seek out a fresh perspective, a deeper understanding, or even just a simple reminder from someone, something, or somewhere!
 3. Keep it real.
I have learned over and over and over again that often times I need to reel in my expectations of myself.  I continue to work on this!  “I’m going to do 2 hours of Sat Kriya EVERYDAY” is something that I would actually say to myself.  Come on.  No I’m not. And by saying that to myself and then not being able to keep up with it is really discouraging.   Having reasonable expectations is so important!  It’s helpful to work with a teacher who can remind you of that.  I can commit to 11 minutes.  Yes, that I can do. And if I have more time, I’ll do more, and feel good about it.  Simple as that.  
OK, NOW GO GET BACK ON YOUR MEDITATION CUSHION!

About the author: Kyla Rose Maher, creator & owner of Long Time Sun Apparel  is a KRI Certified Instructor of Kundalini Yoga as taught by Yogi Bhajan® and is certified in SuperHealth, a yogic therapeutic technology for addictive behavior.  She has had the privilege of studying under many master teachers including Hari Kaur KhalsaMukta Kaur Khalsa, and Mahan Rishi Singh Khalsa.  Aside from running Long Time Sun Apparel, Kyla has been a contributing writer for the Spirit Voyage Blog and the Kundalini Yoga Boston Blog. She spent the summers of 2012-2013 teaching at the Ponderosa Tazland Festival in Germany and is currently enjoying spreading the teachings of Yogi Bhajan throughout New England along with having a blast growing with Long Time Sun Apparel.